How To Make Your Wildest Dreams Come True

What does it take to build the life of your dreams?

I set out to answer that question in this week’s newsletter, and I’ve returned with some profound insights that could transform your whole life.

Let me ask you some questions:

Do you struggle with motivation?

Is your life anything but magical and enjoyable?

Do you sometimes feel like there’s more to life than this?

Do you have a deep and burning desire to create an amazing life?

Then this article is for you — today we will be discussing what that kind of life requires.

“Pfff, come on now Tym — you’re just a child. You know nothing about this world and you will see when you grow up that it’s impossible. You’re just lost in your fantasies. How would you know? Ugh, kids these days.”

Congratulations, you’re repeating all the nonsensical programming that you have been brainwashed with by society.

This way of thinking is incredibly damaging. It pains me to see so much potential going down the drain, especially with young people.

People justify their own laziness, fear, and closed-mindedness in such crazy ways — “Tym, that’s just the rules!” No… they’re not. Who the f*ck told you they were?

Don’t you feel like you’re destined for much more than this?

Don’t you feel like being “average” is slowly destroying your soul?

Some people would call this type of thinking a “delusion of grandure” — that goes to show how little self-confidence these people have, and how much they have been conditioned by their environment to “stay within their limits”.

But that’s them projecting their own limiting beliefs onto others.

You say it’s not possible because you don’t think it is, because you have been conditioned to think that by your environment.

You are missing out on all the beauty of life — and believe me, it is possible.

And I hate to break it to you, but you only have a short amount of time left to live.

Decades are nothing in the context of the entire universe — after that, you will never be able to feel anything ever again.

You will never be able to mire in the beauty of life.

You will never have the sensation of feeling good in your body.

You will run out of time and you won’t be able to work anymore on anything.

You will die sooner or later — so stop taking life for granted!

Do you really want to leave this earth with no legacy whatsoever?

Every single day that you’re alive, every breath that you take, is an absolute miracle. And if you fail to see this — there’s hope, you just haven’t realized your own potential yet.

How much more time are you going to waste?

I don’t care if you’re 30, 50, or even 80 years old — I really don’t, because it’s never too late. But you want to believe it is so you can justify not changing and not doing the hard work that’s required.

See, I have no doubt in my mind that I can make it as a musical artist and digital creator — not for one second. It’s merely a matter of time.

Of course I can’t control whether I die a sudden death or not, but even if I do — I will die happily and full of gratitude. I am not afraid of death.

I’ve made the committment to live my life to the fullest, and it’s bringing me so much fulfillment already.

The problem is that you fail to see all of this.

You can’t see how incredibly powerful and amazing your capabilities are, because you haven’t had that shift in perspective yet.

You are literally equipped with the most powerful biological supercomputer on the planet!

Not only that, but you don’t understand that there is something much much bigger going on, something divine and mysterious, something that infects you with infinite wisdom and intelligence… but we are only beginning to scratch at the surface here.

If you can imagine it (and if it’s possible in the material world) and if you want it bad enough, you can make it happen — period.

In this article, I want to give you my own perspective on life.

I’m gonna show you how and why I found the confidence to pursue my highest self, and what I think to be necessary to build the life of your dreams. Does that sound good or what?

Even if you are further ahead and much older than I am, I promise that you’ll gain something out of this. Remember that you can learn something from everyone, regardless of their age.

So here’s a story:

I Started 2022 Off Strong

…by getting arrested. Not my proudest time if I’m being honest.

But this is not about that. This is about what followed.

I always had this fire burning inside of me.

The tiny voice in the back of my head that urged me to pursue music.

But as many of us tend to do — I quieted it down.

I knew I wanted to become a successful musician (I absolutely can’t get enough of singing — I could do it for hours every day), but I just didn’t have the confidence to hit it off.

But then, some warm day in spring, I indulge in another psychedelic experience.

As the effects are starting to kick in, I decide to go outside for a walk.

Something is calling me, pulling me outside.

It’s dark at this point, and I’m thirsty for an adventure.

I go to my local park for a walk, and it’s nice — but while I’m returning, I suddenly stop at this crossing.

And here’s where I see two options unfold in my mind:

a) Go straight back home

b) Turn left and walk into uncertainty

At first I hesitate to make the turn, but then my adventurous spirit gets the best of me and I decide to give in.

As I’m walking down the road, the effects are getting stronger and stronger.

I walk alongside a gigantic river, following it into less and less busy territory.

I pass under a train bridge, under a massive highway, further and further out — all while tripping harder and harder.

And then the road leads into darkness — a patch of forrest alongside the highway.

I follow it until I finally get to my destination — the old airport that’s no longer in use.

Right in front of the airport, there’s a completely empty 6-lane road that seems to sprawl infinitely in both directions.

It’s cupped by the leaves of gigantic trees, and flushed and flooded in the golden light of the street lanterns.

The moment is perfect. The silky-sweet voice of The Weeknd in my ear, the warm spring air, the soft lighting.

I take my earbuds out.

Everything in my visual field is gently moving and morphing.

The air seems to glisten as if golden dust is being blown around by the wind.

I hear the birds chirping, the toads croaking, the buzzing of the insects.

It feels like I’m in the middle of a magical rainforest.

I sigh and smile — “This is it. This is home”.

An insight hits me out of nowhere like a lightning bolt. I don’t know where it came from, but suddenly I knew with absolute certainty that I could make it, and that I wanted to make it.

I finally knew my way, and I saw it with an amount of clarity and confidence that’s hard to put into words.

The next day, I dove head-first into music production — I got a keyboard, started learning, and started making my own creations.

That experience filled me with such inspiration and vigor that I haven’t had a single doubt about it until this day — and I want you to have that same feeling.

Trust me — the universe wants you to fulfill your destiny. You would be miserable if you don’t — and besides, why would you not want to self-actualize?

Up ahead, I will give you a framework that you can work through to kickstart your journey towards ultimate fulfillment. Yes, I know — I’m only 19 years old. But then again, I like to think of myself as not just any average 19 year old ;)

1. Take A Step Back

Most people are so busy with what’s right in front of them that they never even think about seeing the bigger picture.

They are so pre-occupied with the petty things of life — like which groceries to buy, which movies to watch, which types of beer to drink, how to finish a school project etc, that they “don’t have time” to think about the most important thing.

I don’t blame them — no one really showed them this magical side of life.

If you want to build the life of your dreams, you need to step back. You need to go back to the drawing board, and re-strategize your entire approach to life.

If you’re still young like me — that’s awesome. I highly encourage you to dive deeper into this topic. I recommend this YouTube channel that has helped me so much that it transcends any words that I could come up with.

If you’re older, that’s awesome too! Even if you are 40 or 50, you can still start working on your true passions. The problem is that you either don’t want to, or you don’t believe it’s possible to succeed with it.

But then again… why is that? Why do you throw away your biggest gifts? Think about it.

2. Set The Intention

If you are reading this newsletter, I’m gonna assume that you are somewhat serious about this topic. You should be — this is your life’s work we’re talking about.

But if you’re not, just click off. If you’re not interested in living up to your full potential, you’re going to waste your time here.

Go watch Netflix or something.

But for everyone else — devote yourself to the cause and take initiative.

Spoilers: It’s absolutely (meaning 100%) possible to live the life of your wildest dreams (and infinitely further than that) — but it does take a dead-serious commitment from you.

If you’re not serious about this, it’s pointless.

This is not about fantasizing — it’s about visualizing and actualizing.

I firmly believe that the only reason why you’re not serious about this — is that you haven’t seen what’s possible yet.

Once you get a glimpse of your own capabilities, mental strentgh, creative powers, and potential in general — it’s over with.

Just because you can’t imagine it (yet), doesn’t mean it’s not there.

Not by far.

My vision isn’t even close to being as compelling as it could be, but the mere thought fills me with so much inspiration that I can’t help but be obsessed with my future.

Most people don’t even want this.

3. Question And Contemplate

Questions are the starting point of every major insight and growth process.

Think about it: As a kid, you would constantly annoy your parents with questions because you didn’t understand how the world works.

You still only know 0.000000000000000001% of it — but you stopped asking questions.

This is a huge mistake.

Questions unlock the truly beautiful and wortwhile things in life.

Here’s a whole list that you can (and should) contemplate:

• What do I really want out of life?

• How will I contribute to humanity?

• What is my life purpose?

• What do I not want out of life?

• What do I want to accomplish in my life?

I’m giving you impulses here.

You have to know what you want before you start doing anything.

This is where most people fail already! They never really think about these things in the first place.

And don’t think you’re finished just because you have gotten some form of an answer — no way.

Understand that this is a highly fluid and flexible process that will take a lifetime.

This can always, and I mean always, be taken one step further and one level deeper. The possibilities are infinite.

If you’re asking these questions superficially and think you have the answers, you don’t.

The data in your subconscious mind is constantly changing and expanding in scope, and every new experience that you have could lead to new insights.

4. Get Rid Of Distractions

It’s not possible to self-actualize when your time, attention, and energy are constantly being pulled in every possible direction.

You need to get rid of that stuff. It’s just not gonna happen otherwise.

That includes things you curently take as “normal”, and which most people would agree are totally fine to do.

Video games, porn, TV, Netflix, and any other form of cheap dopamine.

Again — this is not for the average person. If you want to keep playing your video games, binging your serials, and doing other stuff like that on a daily basis — self-actualization isn’t for you.

I’m not telling you that these things are intrinsically bad, it’s just that your highest version doesn’t allow any room for it whatsoever.

You need to get rid of everything, because self-actualization requires some form of sacrifice.

Listen… you do have satisfy your survival needs and basic desires to self-actualize. Shelter, financial stability, food, sex, love — all these things.

But you need to do it in a smart way. Too much of any of those is nothing more than distraction from your cause — which is a much better source of joy and satisfaction anyways.

You need to be intentional with everything you do.

5. Create A Compelling Vision

Imagine you are a musician. Sometimes you get these magical flashes of inspiration — melodies, rhythms, lyrics, whatever.

Those are like your vision. You can clearly imagine it, and now it’s up to you to make that vision a reality. The only question is, how?

And that’s exactly what you’ll have to find out — that’s all life is!

And once you start this process, life suddenly becomes wonderful. Here’s another beautiful quote that sums it up perfectly:

Be wary that there is no general life purpose.

Why? Because meaning is not a feature of the universe.

You are assigning meaning to things with your mind — that means purpose is whatever you say it is.

My purpose is to create music that lights up the fire in people’s souls, and that raises the collective consciousness. I also want to contribute to the field of psychedelic science.

But the main thing for you here — is it striking that fire in you?

And no, I don’t mean your burning desire to get rich — that has nothing to do with purpose (except that fulfilling your purpose will get you paid heavily in many cases, but never make it your priority.)

If you were to get rich without having purpose, you would never be truly happy.

Getting money for the sake of money is a fleeting pleausure that leads nowhere. Just think of all the depressed rich kids that accomplish nothing in their lives. They have infinite money — do you think it makes them happy?

Your vision is also deeply personal and unique to you.

It’s the culmination of your past experiences, your unique biases and interests, your passions, your gifts, and your talents (which everyone has by the way.)

If it doesn’t feel like your pouring gasoline on fire every time you think about your vision, it’s simply not compelling enough yet!

6. Change Your Environment

Once you have your vision out on paper, the next step is to INTENTIONALLY (!) immerse yourself into an environment that supports the shift in your identity.

That’s a mouthful. What I mean is this:

You can try to imagine what your ideal future looks like.

Whether that is you creating a revolutionary product or piece of technology, helping a specific group of people with something, or impacting your audience with art or music on a deep level — it really doesn’t matter.

But once you can see and feel that vision and how actualizing it would impact your life, you have a compass.

Now you have to deliberately put yourself into a setting that allows you to make progress.

For example: If I want to become a successful musical artist, I will have to:

• Learn about music production in articles, courses, books etc.

• Maybe go to university and study music production and meet like-minded people

• Constantly practice my skills

• Regularly create and experiment with making music

The list goes on… I hope you get my point.

It helps to look around you, to look at the world, and to see which people have already achieved something vaguely similar to what you want to achieve — and which environments they put themselves into in the process.

But this can be a major trap if you do it unconsciously — a truly meaningful life cannot be built purely by emulating and copying others!

It’s a great starting point, don’t get me wrong, but anything that’s wortwhile to pursue is still unknown — it hasn’t been actualized yet. And that will be your job.

So look at people that inspire you, many many many many of them, and get creative.

Extract, take out single elements and qualities that you would like to use in your own creation, and bring your actualized self to life by the power of synthesis.

From that point on, you just have to stay flexible and keep pushing.

This becomes effortless once your vision is compelling enough and you truly believe in it. But watch out — just telling yourself that is not enough.

You have to feel it in your bones, and that’s something you can deliberately achieve.

Vision, time, and consistent effort that actually gets results (!) are what’s seperating you from living a life that you can’t even imagine in your wildest dreams.

7. Obsess About Education

Study every aspect of life so you can understand the biggest possible picture. What if there’s infinite stuff out there that you didn’t even know could dramatically increase the quality of your life?

SPOILERS: There is. And it’s literally infinite. You couldn’t process all of it in 10 lifetimes, let alone one — so make the most of it!

Keep adventurizing and (strategically) immersing yourself in new and unknown learning environments — and I’m not just talking about “new” stuff.

You can also go infinitely deep on your current interests! How many times have you thought that you knew something about something, and then someone came along and shattered your entire perception of the idea?

And if you haven’t had this experience, you’re most definitely wrong about a lot of stuff in your life. You probably don’t think you do, and that’s exactly what makes this so sneaky and deceptive.

Time Is Ticking

Remember: You only have ONE life. Not two, not three — one.

What will you do with it?

Will you piss it all away, or will you use it to build something meaningful and fantastic?

Will you become the person that you have always dreamt of becoming — or will you be a hollow shell of a person that was destined for greatness but didn’t fulfill it?

You have the power to imagine whatever future you want to imagine, and you have the power to actualize that vision (as long as it’s physically doable.)

If that doesn’t touch you on a deep level that makes you eyes widen; if you’re not staring into emptiness right now thinking “shit… I think he might be right”, then I really don’t know what to tell you.

Again — I believe that the only reason why you don’t have that fire, is that you haven’t seen it in action yet.

But it’s your responsiblity to seek that out!

No one will do it for you — look for deeply inspiring people and role models, see how they live and what they have accomplished — does that not move you?

And I’m not talking about people that got rich doing mindless stuff that contributes 0 to humanity, or even detracts from it — no, I mean truly inspiring creative talents.

Does this not create a burning desire to become the best and most self-actualized version of yourself that you can be?

Does it not light up excitement inside of your chest?

Does it not motivate you to get your lazy ass up and start looking for ways in which you can start moving towards your highest self?

I think I’ve made my point clear.

This has nothing to do with “wishful thinking”.

This is rock-solid f*cking reality right here. If you don’t think so, you’re most definitely making up excuses and parroting whatever toxic beliefs you’ve been programmed with by your family, by society, by schooling etc.

I’m here to tell you that it’s absolutely doable, I’m 100% sure even though I haven’t gone there yet.

How can I be so sure? Because I know what humans are capable of — and I happen to be one of them.

As if this could be explained logically. I don’t need to rationalize it to you. That’s the thing — you can’t be certain, you can only intuit that it is true.

Maybe you’ll die — who knows? So what dude?

That’s not an excuse at all, and it doesn’t move me.

It’s time to go out there and be the best that you can possibly be.

— Tym